HIS SECRET OBSESSION
Every man has a game set up in his mind. Now use this to your advantage!
No relationship is immune to challenges, but it is in difficult times that the true power of love and dedication is revealed. If your relationship is going through turbulence, don’t be discouraged, reconciliation and renewal are possible!
There is a relationship “secret ingredient” that a man craves to feel intense and committed love. Without this, he will always keep one foot out the door.
Deep in every husband’s heart is an intense desire to be his wife’s hero. This yearning has ancient origins.
The cause of this desire is written in the very structure of your DNA. And there it stays, dormant… until one day, the right TRIGGER releases its power.
I will show you how to become that trigger and how to AWAKEN your man’s bonding instinct with FULL FORCE.
The idea behind this hook is that men are biologically wired to be competitive. HSO shows women how they can channel THEIR MAN’S ENTHUSIASM into their relationships so that he becomes OBSESSED with winning her over every day.
This angle is attractive to women who want their man to treat them as a priority.
You may have often thought this way:
• I feel like I’m just a colleague and not your wife.
• “He says he loves me, but he’s not in love with me.”
• “I want him to want me around him and not just when it’s convenient for him.”
• “All I do is think about him, but he only thinks about himself”
Most men want a deep, passionate romantic relationship. He wants this more than he lets on.
He’s holding back, because building a relationship is like an investment.
You have to think long term, not just how you feel now. In other words, as men are rational and objective, they will always think about the future in general and not just about the feelings in their hearts, as women do. For the woman, the future awaits her with her loved one, she faces the obstacles that lie ahead with her partner and is carried away by emotion. That’s why one needs the other, one complements the other and, hand in hand, be happy!
This is why you may have been confused by his behavior. He seems to really like you, but something is stopping him.
He is holding back because there is another type of investment that every man needs to make. He won’t take a relationship seriously unless he finds a way to “invest” in the one thing that gives him a sense of meaning and purpose as a man.
Find out what it is by clicking here.
EVERY MAN WANTS A RELATIONSHIP THAT TAKES HIM TO THE LIMIT
If this seems strange, that’s because it is. Sometimes facts really are stranger than fiction. And this is the case when it comes to a man’s deep desire to put his strengths and abilities to the test. The woman who captivates his attention will be the one who makes him feel like a man the most. It is the natural Ying and Yang of complementary opposites that allow you to highlight your masculinity.
You do this by giving him challenges:
• He needs to feel compelled to face these challenges, otherwise they won’t work. And he has to believe that results are important to you, or else he will become bored with the relationship.
• Most men want a deep, passionate romantic relationship. He wants this more than he lets on, his problem isn’t apathy, it’s entropy.
Apathy – lack of motivation or motivation to do something.
Entropy – the natural law of the universe that says that order gives way to chaos.
In his relationship with you, he is at a fork in the road. He doesn’t know which way to go. It’s not apathy. It’s entropy. He is confused. That’s why simplicity is your secret ingredient to success. Simplicity comes to truth.
To be happy and successful in relationships, we must learn to focus on a much smaller set of much more important things. Only focus on what matters. Do less and get more.
What if I could show you where to focus?
How to do less and still achieve more in your relationship?
Force your natural masculine instincts to work for your relationship instead of against it.
Basically, this formula does one thing.
This triggers your desire to be needed. Imagine that your desire to be needed is like a river. It’s constantly flowing. And like a river, it will always flow along the path of least resistance. Letting him meet your needs opens a new path. An outlet. Water will naturally flow into this new opening. If you don’t have these openings in your relationship, it’s like a huge dam has been built. Imagine one of those huge dams that holds back a huge river. Imagine the amount of pressure that builds up behind that dam. This is what happens when you don’t open up exits for your momentum to be necessary. It’s the main reason men have affairs (even men who still love their partner). Some woman comes along and fills your need to feel important, significant and capable. That other woman created an outlet for the pressure building up behind the dam. It doesn’t take long for that outlet to become a new river, a new channel. And then it becomes emotionally painful for him to turn it off. Close!
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Depositions:
Your His Secret Obsession course is AMAZING – an afternoon of solid listening, I put it into practice and the effects are phenomenal! You truly saved our relationship and even though it’s only been a week, we are already growing stronger. And we both see a wonderful future ahead. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. Best investment ever!!! Claudia H.
I read the first 4 chapters and used your suggestions on Saturday. That night we went to dinner (after over a week of not texting or talking). It’s still a work in progress, but I’m much more confident now in communicating with him on a different level. Thank you for showing me things I missed and could have done differently. Joanna
I found reading Your Secret Obsession very inspiring as it helped me understand my husband and helped me overcome many anger issues I had with him for what he did to me and our marriage 26 years ago. I have also found peace from your readings and find all your blogs very helpful and useful. I will be forever grateful to you for sharing your works not only with me, but with all the other wives, girlfriends and women who read your works. Thank you for saving my marriage! Diana
I would like to thank you because you helped me make some decisions that changed my life for the better. The section that helped me the most was the section about whether I should leave. The signs were there, but your program gave me the courage to leave. Yes, it is difficult, but you showed me that I am a stronger person and that I can move forward without this person in my life even after investing more than 2 years. CS
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